{"id":214,"date":"2013-01-30T20:17:14","date_gmt":"2013-01-30T20:17:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/?p=214"},"modified":"2013-01-30T20:33:49","modified_gmt":"2013-01-30T20:33:49","slug":"creating-routine-watching-with-wise-eyes-adapting-to-change","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/?p=214","title":{"rendered":"Creating Routine&#8230; Watching with Wise Eyes&#8230; Adapting to Change"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I think it&#8217;s pretty common to want things to be a certain way in our lives&#8230; we create ideas of how we think things should be, we become attached to these ideas, we worry about whether things will happen the way we think, and we get all stressed out as we plan our futures. We want some level of\u00a0<em>control\u00a0<\/em>over our futures, especially when we&#8217;ve experienced hardship and don&#8217;t want more hardship.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, we can&#8217;t <em>control<\/em> the future. We can&#8217;t <em>control<\/em> what happens to us and around us. Life is hard&#8230; and hardship happens. All we can do is live each day and be ready for what happens, as it happens&#8230; and be aware as it happens&#8230; so we can act with intention, take responsibility for our actions, and learn from our actions&#8230; so we are better adapted to live through whatever happens next.<\/p>\n<p>For me, I try to be prepared for things that may happen by being in my best possible physical, emotional, and mental state-of-being each day. I try to create some routine in my daily life that enhances my presence-of-mind and feelings of well-being so that I am always moving forward in ways I can control while being prepared for change and chaos that will happen and that I can&#8217;t control.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some examples of my daily routine, things that I can <em>control<\/em>:<\/p>\n<p>I try to get 8-9 hours of sleep each night. I make lifestyle choices based on this desire.<\/p>\n<p>I get up every morning and exercise for at least 45 minutes before I begin other daily activities. This way, the unexpected happenings of the day don&#8217;t get in the way.<\/p>\n<p>I practice some form of yoga or meditation at the end of my workout to set intention for the day, express gratitude for myself and loved ones, feel connectedness, and just &#8220;be&#8221; for a few moments.<\/p>\n<p>I practice a fairly strict routine of eating and drinking. I pay attention to when I eat, what I eat, and how I feel afterwards. I try to keep it simple with foods I eat almost everyday. I drink only water and tea and sometimes coconut water. I try to avoid breathing air that isn&#8217;t clean. I do not drink coffee or alcohol; I do not smoke or take non-prescribed drugs. In fact, I usually avoid prescribed drugs. I do take food supplements, like fish oils and green super-foods. And I am learning more about avoiding toxins that I might be putting on my skin for sun protection or cleansing&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I try to avoid negativity and people who don&#8217;t help me bring out the best in myself.<\/p>\n<p>I try to act with feelings of compassion for all things, and watch with wise eyes as things happen around me. This is difficult, but it helps me deal with the chaos, challenges, and hardships of life&#8230; and adapt to whatever happens next.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_215\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/wolf.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-215\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-215\" title=\"Wise Eyes\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/wolf.jpg?resize=300%2C246\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"246\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/wolf.jpg?resize=300%2C246 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/wolf.jpg?resize=1024%2C841 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/wolf.jpg?resize=364%2C300 364w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/wolf.jpg?w=1535 1535w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/wolf.jpg?w=1168 1168w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-215\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Wolf Eyes&#8230; 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