{"id":1697,"date":"2017-04-28T13:41:03","date_gmt":"2017-04-28T17:41:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/?p=1697"},"modified":"2017-04-28T13:41:03","modified_gmt":"2017-04-28T17:41:03","slug":"the-guest-house","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/?p=1697","title":{"rendered":"The Guest House"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When learning to live a life of learning, I am reminded that each experience that I have, each person that I meet, and each feeling that I embrace\u00a0are my teachers &#8211; my guides. Some show me the way to go, some show me the way not to go. Each is here to help me see <em>my way<\/em> more clearly &#8211; if I pay attention.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/IMG_7242_edited-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1356\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/IMG_7242_edited-1.jpg?resize=300%2C236\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"236\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/IMG_7242_edited-1.jpg?resize=300%2C236 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/IMG_7242_edited-1.jpg?resize=1024%2C807 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/IMG_7242_edited-1.jpg?resize=380%2C300 380w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/IMG_7242_edited-1.jpg?w=1168 1168w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/IMG_7242_edited-1.jpg?w=1752 1752w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I am reminded of this Rumi poem:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>This being human is a guest house.<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em> Every morning a new arrival.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em> A joy, a depression, a meanness,<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em> some momentary awareness comes<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em> As an unexpected visitor.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em> Welcome and entertain them all!<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em> Even if they&#8217;re a crowd of sorrows,<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em> who violently sweep your house<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em> empty of its furniture,<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em> still treat each guest honorably.<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em> He may be clearing you out<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em> for some new delight.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em> The dark thought, the shame, the malice,<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em> meet them at the door laughing,<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em> and invite them in.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em> Be grateful for whoever comes,<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em> because each has been sent<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em> as a guide from beyond.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>(Mewlana Jalaluddin Rumi (Born 1207);\u00a0<\/em><em>Translation by Coleman Barks)<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"sharedaddy sd-sharing-enabled\"><div class=\"robots-nocontent sd-block sd-social sd-social-icon-text sd-sharing\"><h3 class=\"sd-title\">Share this:<\/h3><div class=\"sd-content\"><ul><li class=\"share-facebook\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-facebook-1697\" class=\"share-facebook sd-button share-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/?p=1697&amp;share=facebook\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to share on Facebook\"><span>Facebook<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-email\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-email sd-button share-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/?p=1697&amp;share=email\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to email this to a friend\"><span>Email<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-print\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-print sd-button share-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/?p=1697\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to print\"><span>Print<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-linkedin\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-linkedin-1697\" class=\"share-linkedin sd-button share-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/?p=1697&amp;share=linkedin\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to share on LinkedIn\"><span>LinkedIn<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-end\"><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When learning to live a life of learning, I am reminded that each experience that I have, each person that I meet, and each feeling that I embrace\u00a0are my teachers &#8211; my guides. 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