{"id":1236,"date":"2014-07-30T10:01:18","date_gmt":"2014-07-30T14:01:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/?p=1236"},"modified":"2014-07-30T10:01:18","modified_gmt":"2014-07-30T14:01:18","slug":"65-years-ago","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/?p=1236","title":{"rendered":"65 Years Ago"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>65 years ago today my parents were married in Rockport, Massachusetts.<\/p>\n<p>51 weeks ago today my father passed away near is home in Burnt Hills, NY.<\/p>\n<p>They had beautiful times together. I am blessed to be their child.<\/p>\n<p>Memories help form the foundation of my identity and remind me who I am. Who I am is what I do for\u00a0others today. They both taught me that this is my way&#8230; not by their words&#8230; but by the example of their way.<\/p>\n<p>A community member wrote this about my dad after his passing:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #bbbbbb;\">\u201cHistory is the story of ordinary people who did extraordinary things.\u201d My dad was \u201cthe best extraordinary example\u201d he knew. \u201cHis passion, energy, and willingness to do what was good for children created a leadership style that was positive and infectious, causing people to be willing to follow his lead.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>As my father&#8217;s son, I am reminded of what I said at his service:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #bbbbbb;\">\u201cI am Bob Speck Jr, son of Bob Speck Sr. I come from the green hills of New England, the blue shores of the Atlantic, the golden fields of New York, and have found my spirit in the white peaks of the Wasatch. I serve my villages, and plant seeds of learning and joy, with wisdom and integrity, with humility and humor. I spend my days in this world of dreams; my father walks in the land of strawberries. And it is all SO BEAUTIFUL.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I spent the day yesterday with my mom. It was beautiful. We had strawberries for lunch.<\/p>\n<p>Today, I spend my day with both of my parents. And it is beautiful.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Tetons-Maggies-Pictures-143.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1241\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Tetons-Maggies-Pictures-143.jpg?resize=300%2C224\" alt=\"Tetons- Maggie's Pictures 143\" width=\"300\" height=\"224\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Tetons-Maggies-Pictures-143.jpg?resize=300%2C224 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Tetons-Maggies-Pictures-143.jpg?resize=1024%2C768 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Tetons-Maggies-Pictures-143.jpg?resize=400%2C300 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Tetons-Maggies-Pictures-143.jpg?w=1168 1168w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Tetons-Maggies-Pictures-143.jpg?w=1752 1752w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div class=\"sharedaddy sd-sharing-enabled\"><div class=\"robots-nocontent sd-block sd-social sd-social-icon-text sd-sharing\"><h3 class=\"sd-title\">Share this:<\/h3><div class=\"sd-content\"><ul><li class=\"share-facebook\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-facebook-1236\" class=\"share-facebook sd-button share-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/?p=1236&amp;share=facebook\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to share on Facebook\"><span>Facebook<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-email\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-email sd-button share-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/?p=1236&amp;share=email\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to email this to a friend\"><span>Email<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-print\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-print sd-button share-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/?p=1236\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to print\"><span>Print<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-linkedin\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-linkedin-1236\" class=\"share-linkedin sd-button share-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/amentorwalkswithme.com\/?p=1236&amp;share=linkedin\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to share on LinkedIn\"><span>LinkedIn<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-end\"><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>65 years ago today my parents were married in Rockport, Massachusetts. 51 weeks ago today my father passed away near is home in Burnt Hills, NY. 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